1. My Story
I’m the creator of the 8 Week Vetting Program, a guide born from my own painful journey. Growing up, I endured a childhood under a narcissistic mother whose lies and manipulation shaped my early life. Her charm masked a web of control, fueled by alcoholism and financial deceit, costing our family stability. From age 13 to 38, I sought love to fill that void, only to lose $37,500 to dating disasters—dinners, gifts, therapy—all chasing women who mirrored her toxicity.
Relationships that started with promise ended in heartbreak: flakiness by week 4, jealousy by week 6, and full betrayal by week 8. Each failure echoed my past, leaving me broke and broken. My rock bottom came in my 30s when a seemingly perfect partner revealed hidden debts and rage, mirroring my mother’s patterns. That moment sparked a transformation—I studied psychology, consulted experts like Dr. John Gottman, and turned my scars into a system.